Monday, January 07, 2008
An Awesome 2008 Ahead, Toes in the Air, Suck Away, Have Fun, Be Free!
I really don't have anything to say but just wanted to say hello. Actually, I always have something to say. I wish some of you would have replied to my last post--just curious. I really thought that was a cool article and hit on the themes I keep shouting about. If we were more free, we'd be less tense, and either we wouldn't be going to spas so much or the whole spa thing could somehow be a more healthy experience for everyone involved. Or maybe that's asking too much, especially from the spa workers. I especially liked the part in the article about how young women these days, at least in New York, are very comfortable with lying on a table naked for just a bikini wax. It's not a Brazilian so what are they thinking? And, if it is a Brazilian they came for, fine, the whole thing doesn't matter anyway. The most intimate has become just another piece of armor in the game of sex. The armor for amore.
Anyway, there's always something to say. The political process is in full swing and there's always plenty of flip floppin goin on there, especially by Mitt Romney. Oh, that's too easy. But that guy is just weird in the sense I really don't think he believes in anything but himself. If I had to bet on Brit or Mitt, I'd take Brit anytime. But, since I have your fleeting attention, I should roll out something juicy for the horny element among us, huh? Hey, you guys can settle this one for me, which is better: clean pretty feet or dirty pretty feet? Matter of taste, huh? Not too much of that barefootin on sidewalks, no. But what about clean pretty feet that look dirty? Like dipped in chocolate, all messed up like that? Yeah, that I like. That I've tried a few times. It's messy but it's fun. He likes it anyway. I might talk more about him in this coming year. We've been up to some fun and it gets me excited thinking about it. Oh, I've meant to do a lot things with this blog. Well, I'll just see how I feel let things happen naturally. Just sayin hello.
Labels: flip flops, foot fetish, just toes, new year, open toes
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Hey FFG. Just found your blog and think it's really interesting, the whole thing, I mean, not just this entry.
As for your last entry, to which nobody responded, what struck me the most is the emphasis on the commodification of sensual pleasure the article touches on. It seems to me not so much to say something about the increasing insensitivity to intimacy as a deep craving for it that isn't being answered in the world these women inhabit.
I can't help but think that some of the comments on the pedicure especially resonate with what you were already discussing in the foot fetish blogs--and the way attraction to female feet (the erotic nature of which can be attested by the designs of various sandals going at least back to the Egyptians) has been labelled as kooky or comic to such an extent that a large number of women today are entering their 30s without ever having had a mature partner really, for example, massage their feet in an intimate way.
I know that my own girlfriend has not had that experience, and that the care I lavish on her feet is the first she's experienced (even though she has had a number of other boyfriends before me). She now enjoys it, but it was so new to her at first, it was amazing.
It's hard to deal with attraction to feet, in ways that it's not hard at all with the breast or the buttocks (deemed acceptable). If you dig a girl's feet, you wind up sometimes reminding her that you dig all of her, not just her feet, which is not something you have to do otherwise--as if admiring the foot was somehow something which objectified a woman more than admiring her breasts. I've noticed a number of women these days who fully identify with their breasts, and not at all with their feet. Feet are seen as appendages and breasts as deeply connected to identity.
Anyway, just a few musings after reading your blog!
As for your last entry, to which nobody responded, what struck me the most is the emphasis on the commodification of sensual pleasure the article touches on. It seems to me not so much to say something about the increasing insensitivity to intimacy as a deep craving for it that isn't being answered in the world these women inhabit.
I can't help but think that some of the comments on the pedicure especially resonate with what you were already discussing in the foot fetish blogs--and the way attraction to female feet (the erotic nature of which can be attested by the designs of various sandals going at least back to the Egyptians) has been labelled as kooky or comic to such an extent that a large number of women today are entering their 30s without ever having had a mature partner really, for example, massage their feet in an intimate way.
I know that my own girlfriend has not had that experience, and that the care I lavish on her feet is the first she's experienced (even though she has had a number of other boyfriends before me). She now enjoys it, but it was so new to her at first, it was amazing.
It's hard to deal with attraction to feet, in ways that it's not hard at all with the breast or the buttocks (deemed acceptable). If you dig a girl's feet, you wind up sometimes reminding her that you dig all of her, not just her feet, which is not something you have to do otherwise--as if admiring the foot was somehow something which objectified a woman more than admiring her breasts. I've noticed a number of women these days who fully identify with their breasts, and not at all with their feet. Feet are seen as appendages and breasts as deeply connected to identity.
Anyway, just a few musings after reading your blog!
# posted by 
: 7:04 PM
: 7:04 PM
I guess the new year brought some people out. I really gravitated to your comments, Rake. Yeah, yeah, I did immediately pick up on the desire for intimacy. I do think there is a desensitization going on with respect to these women willing to hold nothing back and lie naked on a table when they could do less. That indicates to me these are people way out of balance, not even capable of achieving the sort of intimacy they desperately need. We all, of course, need intimacy. When it is denied to us, we find ways to get at least a taste of it.
The subject of feet remains fascinating and the particular subject of how we enjoy some sexual/sensual release from expressing a healthy foot fetish is always going to be near to my heart. I am so happy for you and your girlfriend that you both appear to be able to hold nothing back. There's that beautiful intimacy in action for you.
Why we women would hold back or deny the obvious sensual and sexual connection to feet baffles me and that is something that I keep coming back to in this blog. I can tell you that I just know from all I've seen and shared that women can be somewhat or outright candid about feet in the right circumstances. It's almost like catching a glimpse of a rare butterfly. Sometimes it will come out in a sly comment or it's the body language. We all should just get over it! That's definitely easier said than done.
The subject of feet remains fascinating and the particular subject of how we enjoy some sexual/sensual release from expressing a healthy foot fetish is always going to be near to my heart. I am so happy for you and your girlfriend that you both appear to be able to hold nothing back. There's that beautiful intimacy in action for you.
Why we women would hold back or deny the obvious sensual and sexual connection to feet baffles me and that is something that I keep coming back to in this blog. I can tell you that I just know from all I've seen and shared that women can be somewhat or outright candid about feet in the right circumstances. It's almost like catching a glimpse of a rare butterfly. Sometimes it will come out in a sly comment or it's the body language. We all should just get over it! That's definitely easier said than done.
I don't know that we hold NOTHING back--there are some elements of my own feelings I haven't really shared with her, partly because of their somewhat bizarre nature. In the right circumstances, maybe...I don't really require those elements for fulfilment or intimacy. I'm more likely to share on the blog than real life!
# posted by : 12:59 PM
: 12:59 PM
Hi! I stumbled across your blog and I just wanted to say how great I think it is.
Your posts really struck a chord with me: I too love the sensuality of feet and flip flops especially, both my own and those of the girls I've dated in the past. I had no idea that women felt this as strongly as men, but you are clearly the exception. It's very cheering to know that there are girls who think in exactly the same way as us guys on this.
But being open about this is certainly easier said than done. One of the problems with the whole feet thing is that it so often is seen as inextricable from S&M, which doesn't interest me. I think also our culture makes a very precise distinction between sensuality (what feels nice) and sexuality (what's a turn-on): with feet/flip flops at least there is a blurring of the two, which doesn't strike me as unhealthy, just honest.
Anyhow, thanks again for your blog. You've inspired me to wear flops tomorrow, despite the cold. Keep up the good work!
Your posts really struck a chord with me: I too love the sensuality of feet and flip flops especially, both my own and those of the girls I've dated in the past. I had no idea that women felt this as strongly as men, but you are clearly the exception. It's very cheering to know that there are girls who think in exactly the same way as us guys on this.
But being open about this is certainly easier said than done. One of the problems with the whole feet thing is that it so often is seen as inextricable from S&M, which doesn't interest me. I think also our culture makes a very precise distinction between sensuality (what feels nice) and sexuality (what's a turn-on): with feet/flip flops at least there is a blurring of the two, which doesn't strike me as unhealthy, just honest.
Anyhow, thanks again for your blog. You've inspired me to wear flops tomorrow, despite the cold. Keep up the good work!
# posted by : 11:55 AM
: 11:55 AM
Hi Rake,
I'd be interested to read more from you. Sorry for the delaly. I don't always have all the time I want but wanted to touch base right now. I'll get back into the swing of things, especially as the weather warms up.
Intimacy--that's a very big issue. What do we do to get it, what do we fear to reveal...I can tell you that, once you're ready, letting out a secret and confiding in a lover can be very exhilirating, a real high.
xoxo
Rachel
I'd be interested to read more from you. Sorry for the delaly. I don't always have all the time I want but wanted to touch base right now. I'll get back into the swing of things, especially as the weather warms up.
Intimacy--that's a very big issue. What do we do to get it, what do we fear to reveal...I can tell you that, once you're ready, letting out a secret and confiding in a lover can be very exhilirating, a real high.
xoxo
Rachel
Hi SteveB,
Glad to hear your happy feet thoughts. It's good to hear you're nice to your own feet as well as the girls you date. It sounds like you're someone very in tune with your body, your needs, your sensuality. That's very cool. And I salute you for wearing your flips out in the cold. It's a nice sensation, isn't it? I notice those guys out in flips while their girlfriends wear something more sensible for the weather. Nothing else can explain it but a need for sensual gratification. And, of course, there's us girls in flip flops in winter. It's not just a "girl thing," right? It's a human thing, a human need.
take care,
Rachel
Glad to hear your happy feet thoughts. It's good to hear you're nice to your own feet as well as the girls you date. It sounds like you're someone very in tune with your body, your needs, your sensuality. That's very cool. And I salute you for wearing your flips out in the cold. It's a nice sensation, isn't it? I notice those guys out in flips while their girlfriends wear something more sensible for the weather. Nothing else can explain it but a need for sensual gratification. And, of course, there's us girls in flip flops in winter. It's not just a "girl thing," right? It's a human thing, a human need.
take care,
Rachel
Just found your blog -- very, very nice. It's really late, but I'll stop in again and say hello. Keep up the fan-tastic work here!
Well, I wore flops in January! It felt great: I guess I just prefer not wearing proper shoes. I think a lot of people think that way: in adverts etc, flops/bare feet always seems to be a shorthand for natural,free-spirited, sensual and so on. I suspect it is indeed a basic need.
Which brings me to your dirty/clean question. Pretty feet are nicer aesthetically, and to touch, but there's something about girls who go barefoot (ooh yes!). It's much more than just checking out their feet: barefoot implies both vulnerable girliness and being wild and daring, and it's a very sexy combination. I just wish it was seen as more acceptable.
It makes me think that clothes are often sexy not just because they show skin, but because of what they suggest: I like the way flip flops can be pretty on a girl but also kinda slovenly and casual. That implies someone good-looking, but funky and not too much of a princess. Maybe I over-intellectualise these things, but I think it's true...
But cute feet drizzled in molten chocolate? Yes please.
Which brings me to your dirty/clean question. Pretty feet are nicer aesthetically, and to touch, but there's something about girls who go barefoot (ooh yes!). It's much more than just checking out their feet: barefoot implies both vulnerable girliness and being wild and daring, and it's a very sexy combination. I just wish it was seen as more acceptable.
It makes me think that clothes are often sexy not just because they show skin, but because of what they suggest: I like the way flip flops can be pretty on a girl but also kinda slovenly and casual. That implies someone good-looking, but funky and not too much of a princess. Maybe I over-intellectualise these things, but I think it's true...
But cute feet drizzled in molten chocolate? Yes please.
# posted by : 2:18 PM
: 2:18 PM
I've been such a slacker just padding about in flip flops. I can't believe I'm saying this but I think I did catch a cold from wearing my flip flops out in the very cold night air. But I'm over it. Flip flop season has officially begun and I'm all over it.
Hey girl
Just accidentally stumbled upon your blog. You have amazingly sexy feet. Clean or dirty doesn't matter, you can press those soles in my face anytime.
Take care and keep posting.
nakedfootlover
Just accidentally stumbled upon your blog. You have amazingly sexy feet. Clean or dirty doesn't matter, you can press those soles in my face anytime.
Take care and keep posting.
nakedfootlover
# posted by : 4:32 AM
: 4:32 AM
Hey NFL,
You wanna do what with my feet? Anytime, big boy, if you think you can handle them, ha, ha, just kidding. I took a quick peek at your site. I'd love to hear more about your foot fetish thoughts. I mean, there is quite a lot of stuff out there with girls loving each other's feet. I can understand it on some level. It's not something I would ever want to be caught on video doing. Anyway, it's not something I've studied too much but I'm aware of it and seen enough of it. I sort of like it. What do you think about it?
Peace and Love Always,
Rachel
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You wanna do what with my feet? Anytime, big boy, if you think you can handle them, ha, ha, just kidding. I took a quick peek at your site. I'd love to hear more about your foot fetish thoughts. I mean, there is quite a lot of stuff out there with girls loving each other's feet. I can understand it on some level. It's not something I would ever want to be caught on video doing. Anyway, it's not something I've studied too much but I'm aware of it and seen enough of it. I sort of like it. What do you think about it?
Peace and Love Always,
Rachel
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